Dear Jessica Brennan,

Let me tell you what I’ve lost,

Money, so much

People, so many

Relationships, I was a fool

Friends, they weren’t

Dignity, oh ya

Face; a multitude of times

These things don’t make me special, 

Or unique

Or more wounded

I can’t hold them up like trophies 

As though I am the only one 

Ever to feel pain

Or cause pain 

To someone else

Take it from your mum,

Do not worship what you have lost

But rather, honour what you have learned

What you have gained

The wonderful you, that you have become

Do not dwell on what you have lost 

What has left

What is gone

Lest you lose the future 

While looking behind you

Love,

Mum xo