Dear Jessica Brennan,
Recently a clever person reminded me that if you’re the smartest person in the class, you’re in the wrong class. As I was thinking about why this is true, I also wondered if we sometimes intentionally seek out rooms we know we can be the smartest in, thus denying ourselves the opportunity to grow?
It does feel safe being the smartest — But safe, in this case, is as fun as watching paint dry.
Remaining in a familiar environment might be comfortable. Still, it can lead to stagnation. Conversely, exposing yourself to fresh ideas, diverse perspectives, and unexpected challenges by venturing into new spaces catalyzes growth, pushing you beyond your limitations.
It’s scary to be the one with less knowledge than everyone else in the room — But scary, in this case, is good for you.
Moving to a different room allows you to explore a broader range of subjects, introduces you to individuals with unique backgrounds and expertise, and broadens your horizons, enabling you to become more well-rounded.
Being the smartest person in the room can sometimes lead to arrogance and complacency.
Do you want to be that person?
You cultivate humility by intentionally placing yourself in rooms where others surpass your knowledge and abilities. This humility creates a fertile ground for personal development, as it encourages you to approach learning with an open mind, ready to absorb new information and ideas.
Humility isn’t weakness. It just feels that way sometimes.
If you’re the smartest person in the class, ask yourself how long this has been the case? You may find you need to be in a different class.
Love,
Mum xo
